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Created on 7th June 12:02am.
Please note that i'm not a counselor in reality.
But i do give advices to friends, people whom i do not know. It can be relationships, family, friendship.
If you have really serious problems, like health. Its best you consult a real doctor. I don't want people to die.
I'll try to give the absolute best solution i can think of to help you guys out. *It might not work, but you can give it a try.
I don't give out my personal information to anyone. I hope i can help everyone with their problems.
If you're going to share your story with me, obviously the cbox is too small.

So you could email me here.

Please indicate your age too, if you would want your story to be posted, or keep it private.
If posted, i'll reply on the post itself. If not, i'll reply you privately.

Love life. Have a nice day.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

13 Jun 10, 10:02 PM
Racheluvz, says.: suppose* to do? Thankz. :(
13 Jun 10, 10:02 PM
Racheluvz, says.: Hai. Um, sometimes i behave like i'm some kinda bigshot in school. But it's just the way i behave, girls from the higher level always critise me. But, they aren't better anyway. :/ So, what am i suppo
- Hey Rachel :) First, i'm a lil confuse, as in your 'bigshot' is in a way like?

13 Jun 10, 09:35 PM
AL: done w/o really thinking of how others feel.
13 Jun 10, 09:34 PM
AL: Party A thinks that Paty B is too noisy & are going 'high' always at th wrong time. while Party B thinks that Party A are unresasonable people & that they always do things th way they want it t be
- Alright, leave those 2 and find a new cliques of friend. :) Tada.

13 Jun 10, 08:35 PM
Babykyzira's: Of course red is popular :) HAHA hi deez!
- Oh. Really? Haha. Heyyy.

13 Jun 10, 06:45 PM
tina: im 16 this year.
13 Jun 10, 06:44 PM
tina: what should i do? im really confused this time .
13 Jun 10, 06:44 PM
tina: im with this boy, he loves me. and so am i. but i think im loving his friend.. wht am i suppose to do? th friend is aware of my feeling for him. he doesn't like me. but i can't seem to forget him:(
- Hi Tina. I think you should stay about from that friend of his, the one you seem to like him. You are mature enough to handle your feelings. All just have to do is just try a lil bit harder. :)

13 Jun 10, 05:26 PM
AL: thanks for your advices, i've tried it before, but once they knew that th other party is going, they immediately turn me down. everything was cancelled in th end.
- Why not asking them out to clear any misunderstandings? Like why actually happened to have made them dislike each other or something. (:

13 Jun 10, 05:21 PM
Passerby: Xiaor3dz is the red boy x)
- Red guy is sure one popular guy huh. Lol.

13 Jun 10, 03:46 PM
zxc: OMG -XIIAOR3DZ HAHHAHAHAHAAHAHA
- Lol.. Okay, the red guy and his friends are freakin' me out.

13 Jun 10, 03:20 PM
LC: what should i ido.
13 Jun 10, 03:20 PM
LC: I'm 15 and i really dont know what to do . My friends says he's a flirt , cause his wall is filled with girl comments .
13 Jun 10, 03:19 PM
LC: I like someone , he told me to wait . And i've been waiting since . Now i got a feeling his playing with me .
- Hi LC. Ask him the reason why he wants you to wait. & if you think you've waited very long, you can give up and move on. Having alot of female friends doesn't mean he's a player. What you see, might not always be what it seems. (:

13 Jun 10, 01:52 PM
JH: God bless you, thank you yup! Wish you happy too! :)
13 Jun 10, 01:51 PM
JH: And, I suddenly don't know whats love anymore :(
13 Jun 10, 01:50 PM
JH: me at all... They all pressure both of us. Whenever I go over my boyfriend's house for dinner, they'll black-face me :( I really love my boyfriend. But, recently we quarreled over the littlest things.
13 Jun 10, 01:49 PM
JH: Hello, I'm fourteen. and i've a problem, my boyfriend is older than me by 5year old. Most of our friends, families disagree our r/s :( I've told them I'll not neglect my studies, but they didn't trust

- Hi JH. Do you still love your boyfriend now? Or has your feelings for him decreased? If so, try to have a talk with him, and see what both of you could do to make it better for you guys. If your parent's doesn't trust you, prove to them, by showing them your results. Rather than just telling them. Action speaks louder than words honey. All the best :)

13 Jun 10, 01:47 PM
Rachel:): I hate her deep inside my heart but,i longed to be friends with her again . wht should i do? Zzz Haish .
13 Jun 10, 01:46 PM
Rachel:): i told her alrdy,but she say she will talk to me often but still she did not.After awhile i refuse to speak to her,ended up she took both my othr bestfriends with her. Now i am alone :(.
13 Jun 10, 01:45 PM
Rachel:): Hello Deez(: . i need some real help in friendship x.x. i once had a bestfriend in secschol thisyear,but
after awhile she kept abandoning me and go goes off with my other goodfrens leaving me lonely,
- I think you should befriend with people like her. Even if you both get back together again, she might once again abandon you and goes off with other people. So just forget about it, and find better friends who won't leave you alone no matter what. Otherwise, they are not your friends.

13 Jun 10, 01:10 PM
I's (CY): hey deez, you have not answer my qns ya know! :)
-I've replied it already.
" 11 Jun 10, 01:22 PM
I's (CY): Hi, i like your blog eh! ^^ okay, I like this guy. but i wna know if he likes me or not. how do i tell?
- Hi, i like you, for liking my blog! Hahaha! Well, there's 2 ways. #1, " Do you like me? ". #2, Observe his behaviour, the way he treats you. If it's different from other girls
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13 Jun 10, 11:55 AM
YELLOWDUCK: Haha yea, it was a random name. hmm so, any advice? Thanks.:)
- Oh dear, i'm sorry. I replied your tag half way, then i went to do something, then when i came back i just went for the next tag. Sorry. Well, you find it unfair that your parents gave you money for yourself to spend(?). If you can't make up your mind, ask opinions from your friends. Ask them which suits you the best. It's good to be thrifty, but pamper yourself at times.
- Previously,
12 Jun 10, 11:20 PM
YELLOWDUCK: However, when i was with my friends, shopping. i can't seem to make up my mine on what to buy! And i ended up not buying a single thing for myself. How should i cure this problem? Please help.
12 Jun 10, 11:18 PM
YELLOWDUCK: Hi. I really am a thrifty person who dislikes spending money. Recently i've been thinking that its unfair for my siblings to buy what they want and my parents gave me money for myself to spend.


13 Jun 10, 11:55 AM
Bear: Those guys are my bestfriends, infact I find them better than my girl friends. I have been backstabbed,
betrayed, so many times that I couldn't remember. I feel that I'm a loner. :(
13 Jun 10, 11:54 AM
Bear: My friends call me slut, flirt, or even worse when I'm with guys. And you know the feeling suck. :(
13 Jun 10, 11:53 AM
Bear: Hi I'm a girl, I'm currently 15. Why is it that whenever I break up with my boyfriends, I don't feel sad at all? But I really do love them. After they requested for break, I treat it as nth happened.
- Hi. Well, it's because your heart is able to put down easily. If they call you names, why are you even calling them your 'friends' ? Cheer up girl :) Having a guy as your best friend is perfectly normal, are they jealous of what you have? Cheers :)

13 Jun 10, 11:20 AM
Lyn: He doesn't reply my texts and calls ): !
- Then the only way is just forget about him, he's deliberately ignoring you. So, even you miss him, does he? You'll be able to find a better guy alright? (:
- Previously,
12 Jun 10, 08:26 PM
Lyn: But the next day he broke . What should i do ? imisshim ><" 12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM Lyn: i patched back with my ex .
12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM
Lyn: Just wanna ask you something
12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM
Lyn: Hi i'm back x) .
- Hey Lyn! Have things sorted out with him, ask him why did he break after patching up with you for a day. Tell him your feelings. :)

13 Jun 10, 08:30 AM
Heyhey: Do you have msn ? Can I add you there ? :D
- Hey, i've a email ' askdee@live.com.sg ' . But i don't msn much. You can add me though. (:

13 Jun 10, 06:51 AM
@: I'm a girl, And I like girls. What should I do? I'm currently with a girl.
- Are you kinda like a butch or a tomboy? Or both are like lady like? Mix with more guys then. Change your environment, hanging out with guys, if you're like a tomboy or something, wear something more feminine. Then adapt to it slowly. (: Good luck.

13 Jun 10, 06:31 AM
/: I'm 14 with depression . I cannot handle it anymore . I feel like I might kill myself anytime . i'm so scared
13 Jun 10, 06:29 AM
/: O
- Hi there, i think you should seek help. Find a real counselor that could be able to help you in reality. Don't always think of things that makes you upset. Think about more happy stuffs :) Cheer up! Don't do silly things alright. (:

13 Jun 10, 03:25 AM
M: My ex kept contacting me and it's irritating me. Even though I don't respond/reply to him, He kept talking to me. And It's really pissing me off. What should I do?
- M, which M are you. I've lots of M(s), which tag are you continuing? Mind if you change your name?

13 Jun 10, 02:48 AM
AL: oh, & if you dk who i am, i'm that A who asked you for advice on my first boyf that i accept th fact he's gone but aint really forgeting him. :) thanks much for your advices tho ^^
13 Jun 10, 02:47 AM
AL: friends please! :(
13 Jun 10, 02:47 AM
AL: t make them friends, but it's really hard for me t digest th fact that they hate each other. i mean, one more friend's better than one more enemy isnt it? give me some advice on how t help them become
13 Jun 10, 02:46 AM
AL: i've got his problem too, its like i've got two clique of friends. both doesnt go well w one another. & whenever i'm w one of th clique, th other gets mad at me. i'm stuck in th middle, trying so hard
13 Jun 10, 02:45 AM
AL: hey, it's me again, thanks for those advices. idk if there's another A but yeah, if there is, its a different A here. hahs, nevermind, my name is now changed t AL? is it easier for you? :) oh btw.
- Hi there. Thanks for cooperating. :) Well, you can go on a outing together as one. And ask them to be themselves and not start any conflict by, you know, those kind of eye contact like staring. Mean comments or remarks, " why did you call them too? Ew. " stuffs like that. If it doesn't work. I think you just have to accept it. Because it's a clique, more than 1 person. It's hard for 1 person to change all of their thinking. Hope it helps ya? :)

12 Jun 10, 11:31 PM
hai: im so fat...
- Keep fit! Eat healthy! Come back next time and say " im so fit... " ;)

12 Jun 10, 11:20 PM
YELLOWDUCK: However, when i was with my friends, shopping. i can't seem to make up my mine on what to buy! And i ended up not buying a single thing for myself. How should i cure this problem? Please help.
12 Jun 10, 11:18 PM
YELLOWDUCK: Hi. I really am a thrifty person who dislikes spending money. Recently i've been thinking that its unfair for my siblings to buy what they want and my parents gave me money for myself to spend.
- Hi Yellow duck, what a cute name :)

12 Jun 10, 10:55 PM
C-L: Heyy, Deez. Youu realli help people alot. Even if youu dunno them. Nice ~ Keep it up (: ^^
- Gee, thanks alot ! Hehe. *Blush

12 Jun 10, 09:54 PM
Stephy: your awesome. Giving advices to ppl who needs helps. Keep on going babe! :D You are great ! :)
- Thank you Stephy! It's what Deez do. Thanks again. Haha.

12 Jun 10, 09:38 PM
Annn`: from you . thanks , i hope my english is understand-able :x
12 Jun 10, 09:38 PM
Annn`: about myself that im in love with him, if not it won't last for about 1year. i can't bear to brk up again, and i believe in myself i will study hard . but , they just disallow. wanna sum advice
12 Jun 10, 09:36 PM
Annn`: Hey deez, im 15. I had been in a r/s for about 1 year + , within this r/s we had break and patch quite a few times. all because of parents , they just doesnt allows me to had a r/s . but, im sure
- Hi Annn, yes don't worry. It's readable. Well, you can prove to them, that he's a nice guy(if he is). Let them know why you think they should approve your relationship with tthat guy. Give them some time. Good luck :)

12 Jun 10, 08:38 PM
ME.: days, he said that he doesnt like my bff to befriend with me. What should I do? Should I forget him and leave my bff??
12 Jun 10, 08:37 PM
ME.: Hey Deez. I'm a 14 year old girl. My bff and I likes the same person. We talk about him and share things about him. He was once my boyfriend and my bff have cried for him a several times. And this few
- Heyyy! I think that you should forget about him. & don't leave your bff alone. If he doesn't like, it's his problem. No way a word of his could affect your relationship with your bff(provided she really is your bff). Got it ? :)

12 Jun 10, 08:35 PM
♥/.Dumb's: oh, okay that's great :> well, i have already added you on msn :D
- Honey, i don't use msn with that email. But i might use it to login one day and see how many people accepts me. Hahaha, i might ~ :)

12 Jun 10, 08:26 PM
Lyn: But the next day he broke . What should i do ? imisshim ><" 12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM Lyn: i patched back with my ex .
12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM
Lyn: Just wanna ask you something
12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM
Lyn: Hi i'm back x) .
- Hey Lyn! Have things sorted out with him, ask him why did he break after patching up with you for a day. Tell him your feelings. :)

12 Jun 10, 08:25 PM
Mimi: Thanks for your advices! Now, I feel better ! :D
- Welcome! :)

12 Jun 10, 07:32 PM
R.Hearts: thanks for your advice . :D
- Welcome! :)

12 Jun 10, 07:03 PM
Emilynn!,: Hey , thanks ! I finally spoke to him and resolved our differences ! :D
- That's great! You're welcome! (:

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