12 Jun 10, 03:15 PM
Weirdgurlz: To tell him , that I don't like it, hoping for some advice , thankyou.
12 Jun 10, 03:14 PM
Weirdgurlz: Hey, I'm a 15 year old girl and I have a boyfriend who seems to want to do more intimidating . Now he starts touching me . I don't like it. And I can't admit to tell him that I couldent have the heart
- Hey girl. Why can't you tell him? If you can't tell him, just break off with him. You know it that some of the guys now only just want to be engage in sexual activities with you. Be smart, you get a boyfriend, to be love, and love him. Not to be touched, and afraid to tell him.

12 Jun 10, 02:07 PM
Jeslyn.: I absolutely love the way you care so much for people, even if you dontknow them. So much to the extent of opening a blog to help them with r/s and such problems ! You rock. \m/
- Hi Jeslyn! Thank you so much. People like you and Passerby really make my day. You're welcome :) & thanks alot!

12 Jun 10, 11:18 AM
Passerby: You're good at Advices , (: Really helps alot !
- Thanks! Hahaha, you're making me blush~

12 Jun 10, 11:04 AM
ILOVEHIM: Hey deez,why u didn't answer my problem? :(
- Sorry, i guess i accidentally skipped yours. My mind and eyes was flying everywhere for blogger ytd. I replied them already :)

12 Jun 10, 09:51 AM
Gah: Ahhah! I noe you reply us around midnight 2+ , Deen Dear, sleep early worr! Don't affect ur health, trying t help people ^^ Muacks! Thanks for everyth! Im bak wit him now :D
- Hahaha. It's okay. I can only blame myself getting home late. Hahaha. Thats great! Last long and stay sweet! You're welcome my dear :D

12 Jun 10, 08:35 AM
-: Hi deez, after always getting hurt in the past, i no longer trust r/s anymore. what can i do?
- Hi, i'm sorry but someone has already been called a " - ". I don't want to get mixed up in the future. Change your name and notify me which '' - '' you are. Anyway, why aren't you trusting relationship? The one you should look out for are the other half of yours. You can stop getting hurt by starting to control your feelings (if you find that he/she doesn't love you as much as before, slowly take back your feelings so that you won't get really hurt at the end), understanding your other half before getting in a relationship with them (know them long enough first, like their attitude, behaviour and things you needa know). I hope it helps, tyvm.

12 Jun 10, 07:28 AM
Celia's: I just broke up with him .
- Honey are you alright? Would you like to mail me on what had happen? Cheer up alright. There's always another new start for the next relationship.

12 Jun 10, 01:16 AM
Veez: What browser did you use to make this blog? I can't seem to view this >> side of the sidebar clearly. Can you solve the problem? I want too see all the tags properly, as it might be similar to min
- Hi Veez, similar name. (: I use the internet explorer. Sorry, i'll fix it. Thanks for telling me, otherwise it'll be left like that. Thanks :)

12 Jun 10, 12:29 AM
broken heartz.: hello,ii have a problem.i love my bf.he treats me,hot and cold.i often texted him,but he doesnt reply me.i know he saw those msg's,he just doesnt want to reply me.why is he avoiding me?i had enough..
- Hi there. Hmm, i guess the only way you can do, is have a face to face talk with him, and clear all the misunderstandings and get all the answers to your question. Chill girl :)

11 Jun 10, 11:48 PM
Dasdsa: How old are you?
- Hi Dasdsa. Sorry, i keep my personal stuffs confidential.

11 Jun 10, 11:45 PM
Brenda: to p0rn or something, how can I stop him from watching those dirty stuffs ?
11 Jun 10, 11:45 PM
Brenda: Hi I'm 14 this year. My boyfriend has been with me around 1year and he seems to be desperate to kiss me and
touch me now adays. He asked me if I am h0rny, I feel very strange. He seems to be addicted
- Hi Brenda. I'm so glad you asked me. My dear, you're only 14. Don't let him caress you. Save your body, save yourself. Tell him that you do not want to be treated like this, you feel strange, uncomfortable(i think you should be feeling that way), and hope he respects you, and your decision for not being touched. If he ignores you, tell your parents, or file a report on him. He might just get worse, and force you to be involved in some sexual activities. You won't want to be catching some STDs, do you? God bless.

11 Jun 10, 11:25 PM
Teressa: And I've learnt to let go. But forgetting someone, how long does it takes? How can I forget him completely?
11 Jun 10, 11:24 PM
Teressa: Thank you. You are really good at advices. May I know what's your age? :)
- Hey (: Well, it depends on how determined are you. Some may take days, months, years, or never. But i guess you'll be able to. I'm sure you will. You'll just have to not stop giving up. :) Thanks btw. & sorry i don't tell people my age here. So, yea. I'll just have to keep everyone in suspense. Hahaha.
11 Jun 10, 11:27 AM
-Previously,
Teressa: He flirt with girls, I open one eye and closed another. When I'm talking to other boys he is saying that I'm flirting.. What should I do? :(
11 Jun 10, 11:26 AM
Teressa: Hello, I have a problem here. My bestfriend was flirting with my boyfriend. My boyfriend lets her to hold his hand and I'm feeling so awkward. I want to tell him how I feel but he laughs at me.
- Hi there Teressa (: Wow, holding hands? Right in front of you? I think you should tell him "How is talking compared to holding hands?" I think he's the type of playboy. Well, by right. You should break off with him. You must be elegant, show people, show him that you will not be with guys like him. Even though it hurts, i'm sure it huts more to see if there's a day he flirts into another relationship and leaves you, right?

11 Jun 10, 11:04 PM
Absolutely heartbroken: Our happy memories. It's simply heart breaking. I did try sparking a conversation but she didn't care. I really hope for some advise. God bless
11 Jun 10, 11:03 PM
Absolutely heartbroken: Left I received a message from her. Long story cut short she suddenly wanted nothing to do with me. She didn't want me. I feel like a used cloth being thrown away. Now I find it hard to forget about
11 Jun 10, 11:02 PM
Absolutely heartbroken: Meeting spot so I didn't suspect anything. When we reached class I tried to start a conversation but nothing happened , she went to find our teacher and asked her to allow her to go home. After she
11 Jun 10, 11:00 PM
Absolutely heartbroken: The best of friends , one day she skipped school for a few days. I was concerned for her on the fourthday so I called her. She said she would meet me at our schools back gate and it was our usual
11 Jun 10, 10:59 PM
Absolutely heartbroken: Hi, I came here cause I seem to be losing my mind , my story is like this, I once had this really close friend I really cherished her. She was like a sister I never had. Btw I'm 14 this year. We were
- Hi there. Well, she might be hiding things from you, or not wanting you to know it. So i think you should meet up with her, tell her that you are concerned about her. & hope she shares it with you. You may also tell her that you don't wish to end this friendship with her, because you really treasure it, and hope she doesn't treats you in a way you don't wish her to be treating you. I hope it turns out well between both of you. She should be glad that she has a friend like you. All the best, and good luck :)

11 Jun 10, 10:57 PM
A: me advices on how t let go? i'm suffocating. :(
11 Jun 10, 10:56 PM
A: bothers me anymore, on th other hand, he has alrdy found himself a new girlf. it's like hell hurting for me, but i know i've t accept th fact that he's no longer mine. it still hurts tho, please give
11 Jun 10, 10:56 PM
A: it's my first boyf, i cant seem t get over him. any tips on forgeting my past, cos i've been trying since idk when, till now. it didnt work at all. i know v well i still love him, but he doesnt really
- Hi A. I'm sorry, but i think there's 2 different people called 'A', if i've not mistaken. Please correct me if i'm wrong. Back to the point. I'm glad you know that you're accepting the fact that he's no longer yours. But you've to keep in mind that, not just by saying that you're accepting, it means you really are. If you're disallowing your mind to accept the fact, it's just as good as not accepting it. You've to divert your attention to other stuffs, don't do things, or go places that reminds you of him. If you didn't do things or went places that reminds you of him. Trust yourself, that if you're determine to forget him, you will eventually. It's kinda of hard letting go your first love. But you can always stand up whenever you fall. So, good luck. It all depends on your own thinking, truthfully. :) God bless.

11 Jun 10, 10:37 PM
leelala: Hi, a lot of frens told me abt tis blog, as they have sought help from here it helped. Great Job!!
- Hey leelala. Really? Haha, thanks alot, you've made my day!

11 Jun 10, 09:54 PM
Cassie: I always hope he'll take the initiative and start the conversations.
11 Jun 10, 09:54 PM
Cassie: So you think i like him? Haha
11 Jun 10, 09:53 PM
Cassie: There's this guy whom i liked talking to, i feel happy and relaxed and we've countless of topics to talk about. When we've ended our conversations, i always want to talk to him again.
- Hi Cassie. Well, i don't know about your feelings towards him. So i can't just tell you your feelings by my own opinion, i might be wrong. Hence causing you to 'believe' me. & he might just not be the one for you. Well, you've to ask yourself if you like him or not. You might be thinking ' -.- Then what's the use asking you. ' True, but i don't want to give people the wrong thinking, i might be wrong. I'm not always right. So, have a couple more chats with him, then ask yourself the question. You might like him, or just treat him as your best friend, good company. So, yea. Sorry that if i wasn't of much help ):

11 Jun 10, 09:42 PM
ILOVEHIM: back at me,and still,sometimes,he keep staring at me during lessons time,and now i do not know wat to do,i still like him! :(
11 Jun 10, 09:41 PM
ILOVEHIM: *hii,you are?i reply and say my name,and i ask him whether i can ask one question. but from there,he did not reply my msg.:( and i'm same class with him this year,whenever i look at him,he just look
11 Jun 10, 09:39 PM
ILOVEHIM: hello~ i have a problem here. i like one of a guy from my class,i have like him for 2 yrs,and this year,my friends help me to get his number,and one day,i have msg tat guy saying Hello,and he reply hi
- Hi there. I think you should get closer to him before you confess or what. If not, he might be thinking "Okay...? I don't really know her, and... why does she like me...?" So, try getting closer, then start to talk more. If you think he might like you too, then confess to him ;) (Sorry babe, i guess i accidentally skipped yours.)

11 Jun 10, 07:18 PM
Gah: *encourage
11 Jun 10, 06:56 PM
Gah: Erm . How do I encouraged this guy t stop smoking? ): Hes harming his health ..
- Tell him that you don't wish to see him harming his health. Tell him that he might not see the harm of it now, but you'll never know what happens in the future.
- Previously,
11 Jun 10, 02:00 AM
Gah: He keeps telling me how emo hes feeling .. And keeps telling me that he cut his wrists .. ): Btw, nice blog you got! Kind soul .. May god bless you~
- Tell him not to be silly, and act like a man! Slitting wrist won't help, & it'll leave ugly scars ): Thanks though, may god bless you too.
11 Jun 10, 01:59 AM
Gah: meant for each other, I know I still like him ): What should i do?
11 Jun 10, 01:58 AM
Gah: Helloh. I've got a very complicated r/s here. Me and this guy .. Have already broke up and patched several times.. And now, he's asking me for a patch again. Although I think that we really aren't mea
- If you still like him, tell him sternly that you allow this one last time for a reconciliation. You don't want to step in a relationship when there's always this break and patch, patch and break. Tell him you ain't joking, and you're serious. I hope your relationship gets better :)

11 Jun 10, 06:26 PM
' ESTELLE: i'm sorry. My computer lagged.
11 Jun 10, 06:25 PM
' ESTELLE: Hey. if you have to choose to be with someone. will you choose the one you feel secured with or happier with ?
11 Jun 10, 06:25 PM
' ESTELLE: Hey. if you have to choose to be with someone. will you choose the one you feel secured with or happier with ?
- I believe the word happiness between a couple. So i might choose the one i'm happy with. But don't choose what i choose. Different people have different thinking. So, let your heart choose. Which do you think you mind most, being secured? Or being happy? :)

11 Jun 10, 05:18 PM
pb>M: I suggest you should change another tuition teacher, before your feelings for him gets stronger, it's for your own good girl.
11 Jun 10, 05:18 PM
pb>M: - You're quite young for a relationship, but what the heck, no one cares anymore. But i don't think it's love, i guess it's mere crush. & please do not let him do what he wants just because you like h
11 Jun 10, 05:18 PM
pb>M: she answered.
- Thanks for helping me reply. But i didn't saw her last tag. So, i might missed out hers. Thanks though ^^

11 Jun 10, 05:11 PM
23 `o.o: Hey there. How to stop my friend from being addicted to.. sex? please help.
- Whoa... Um... Actually... I don't really know how to stop someone from sex. Is he/she underage? Encourage him/her to the rehab centre ? :) Seek professional(s)'s help.

11 Jun 10, 04:40 PM
WX: Are you from Singapore?
- Yes, i am sweetie :) I love singapore. ( Hehe, i know you didn't ask, i just felt like saying, sorry :P )

11 Jun 10, 04:27 PM
ah-giirl: How to trust in myself whenever I make decision? Cos I often doubt about myself.
- Think before you do. Whenever you make a decision, think about the consequences before doing it. It helps. :)

11 Jun 10, 04:18 PM
falling: hi. how are you?
- I'm fine! How sweet of you to ask. Hahaha (:

11 Jun 10, 03:43 PM
jessie: i love tis blog thkx for letting me knw =)
- Thanks babe, & you're welcome :)

11 Jun 10, 01:43 PM
M.: And, I know you will ask me change my tuition teacher. But I don't rly wish to as he made my grades improve, WHAT SHOULD I DO! :(
11 Jun 10, 01:43 PM
M.: I fell in love with my tuition teacher, whereas his 20+. I'm 14, I have a boyf. Complicated? .___.
11 Jun 10, 01:42 PM
M.: Ah, you didn't answer me. Its okay, I wanna ask.
- Hey sweetie, i'm sorry. I didn't saw your last tag. I guess something happened when you tag, or it went missing. So i'll reply you now. Well, i think it's a mere crush for your tuition teacher. Well, other tuition teacher will also improve your grades, provided you study hard and ask if you've doubt on your assignments. So, my advice is still, change your tuition teacher. Its the only way honey, plus you're attached. (:

11 Jun 10, 01:39 PM
Mandy: I feel so frustrated and lost. I don't feel like facing the problem at all. But running away isn't solving the problem :(
11 Jun 10, 01:39 PM
Mandy: I replied him " You might ended up failing, if you're not strong enough, then i suggest you not." And he replied me that he decided to win my feelings back, i don't know what to do. Can you help me?
11 Jun 10, 01:37 PM
Mandy: Hi, is me again. I'm not sure whether if you remember me & my problems. Anyway, i heeded your advice and sort things out with him already. He asked me for a chance to start over everything again.
- Hi again. You're right, i don't remember. Well, slightly. So i went round finding the previous one. Hahaha. So, yea. Do you have feelings for him now? If you do, you could give it a try. He bucked up his courage. So if you have feelings for him, why not? If you have no feelings for him, tell him why you choose to tell him why you gave up. & That it's too late.
- Previously,
9 Jun 10, 07:42 PM
Mandy: that is I don't have any feelings for him, it will be kinda embarrassing if he put up a front and reply me he don't like me @ all. Can you tell me what to do?
9 Jun 10, 07:39 PM
Mandy: solution*. Thus, I've given up. I've became happier after letting go, but he doesn't seems to know that I've given up. I don't know what to do. I knows that he still like me. But if i were to tell him
9 Jun 10, 07:37 PM
Mandy: I waited for a someone for months. I knows that he like me too. He knew that I liked him too. But he never had the courage to ask me to be together. Recently, I think that holding on is not the s
- Well, you can keep it to yourself, until if one day he confess, then you've to hurt his feelings by explaining to him why you gave up waiting for him. Otherwise, you can just ask him, do you like me? Yes it's kinda straightforward. But you see, he held on to his confession, that's why you no longer grew interest in him. If you don't be a little more straightforward, it might create another confusion. (:

11 Jun 10, 01:22 PM
I's (CY): Hi, i like your blog eh! ^^ okay, I like this guy. but i wna know if he likes me or not. how do i tell?
- Hi, i like you, for liking my blog! Hahaha! Well, there's 2 ways. #1, " Do you like me? ". #2, Observe his behaviour, the way he treats you. If it's different from other girls.

11 Jun 10, 12:48 PM
Emilynn!,: and im scared of irritating him ._.
11 Jun 10, 12:48 PM
Emilynn!,: I wanna try .. but I'm scared the conversation will "die"
- There's nothing to be afraid of. Even if you irritate him. At least you know what you're in his eyes. Well, if it 'dies'. Treat him like he's dead to, to you. Live on your life, he isn't worth you being all so worried about. Trust me. If he change, he changed. There's nothing else more. Just live in those memories. Alright? It's kinda sad, but this is life. (:
- Previously,
10 Jun 10, 08:15 PM
Emilynn!,: to*
10 Jun 10, 08:15 PM
Emilynn!,: I want to talk to him. But I don't have enough courage too ._.
- If you want to feel better, if you want to have an answer to your questions, build up your courage. Start by calling him, then asking him out. Or on the phone is fine too.
10 Jun 10, 07:06 PM
Emilynn!,: not in the boyf' way, but well, I once saw him as my bestest guy friend
10 Jun 10, 07:06 PM
Emilynn!,: I wish I could forget him. But even until now, he's really important to me.
- But he doesn't care about you anymore, well it seems so. So, tell him how you feel, and not by telling him you hurt yourself, etc. Don't wish on something when you don't try your best. Cheers.
10 Jun 10, 06:36 PM
Emilynn!,: He didn't even reply me a word, he just said "?" ._.
10 Jun 10, 06:35 PM
Emilynn!,: f was a typo. I kinda cut myself. Uh, well, i asked him if he's angry
- I think you should just forget about him, and don't hurt yourself. It's not worth it, silly.
10 Jun 10, 09:26 AM
Emilynn!,: He's a friend that was very important to me .. and i dont wanna lose him ._.
10 Jun 10, 09:25 AM
Emilynn!,: invisible**. His bestfr' treats me rl well tho, and i think he's angry with me, cos' i have certain isuuses with myself and f and slash .. x.x
10 Jun 10, 09:24 AM
Emilynn!,: Hey.. there's this guy I know, since april, and we've sort of drifted away from each other. We were really really close within the periodwe knew each other tho .. and now he's ignoring me like im invi
- Issues with yourself, f(?) and slash(?). Have a nice talk with him, ask him if he's ignoring you, if he is, why. (: