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Please note that i'm not a counselor in reality.
But i do give advices to friends, people whom i do not know. It can be relationships, family, friendship.
If you have really serious problems, like health. Its best you consult a real doctor. I don't want people to die.
I'll try to give the absolute best solution i can think of to help you guys out. *It might not work, but you can give it a try.
I don't give out my personal information to anyone. I hope i can help everyone with their problems.
If you're going to share your story with me, obviously the cbox is too small.

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Love life. Have a nice day.

Friday, June 11, 2010

11 Jun 10, 11:44 AM
PINKELEPHANT :D: he doesn't actually bother. but it's not something you can get over easily considering he's my first boyf . :(
- Well, but you still have to get over it someday right? You can't possibly dwell on it so long, just be cause he's your first boyfriend. So why not earlier? If he doesn't bother, you must have the 'i don't care too' attitude. Try it :)
11 Jun 10, 11:42 AM
X: X (with 3 tags ) now changes her name to PINKELEPHANT :D
- Alright :)
X(2): When he returns, I still have to face him for after school activities, but I don't know what to do anymore. I don't even know what I did wrong. Can you help?
11 Jun 10, 09:47 AM
X(2): The reasons he provided were that he was tired and we weren't suited for each other. all this written in OFFLINE MSG. Every connection to him was cut, fb, MSN, phone. Making him impossible t contact.
11 Jun 10, 09:46 AM
X(2): My ex and I were together 2 months, and during the 2 months, we never really had any problems. He went back to his home country, and after a week apart, he broke up with me.
- Hey there, first of all i changed your nick, because i've already got an X. Sorry yeah? Alright, back to your problem. I think you should confront him, question him his doings. Maybe it's not something you did, it might be something he did. If he ignores you after you've try a couple of times, i think you should just carry on. Things will get better as time passes by. (:

11 Jun 10, 11:27 AM
Teressa: He flirt with girls, I open one eye and closed another. When I'm talking to other boys he is saying that I'm flirting.. What should I do? :(
11 Jun 10, 11:26 AM
Teressa: Hello, I have a problem here. My bestfriend was flirting with my boyfriend. My boyfriend lets her to hold his hand and I'm feeling so awkward. I want to tell him how I feel but he laughs at me.
- Hi there Teressa (: Wow, holding hands? Right in front of you? I think you should tell him "How is talking compared to holding hands?" I think he's the type of playboy. Well, by right. You should break off with him. You must be elegant, show people, show him that you will not be with guys like him. Even though it hurts, i'm sure it huts more to see if there's a day he flirts into another relationship and leaves you, right?

11 Jun 10, 09:01 AM
W.: *But, people always judge non-virgin to be cheap. Which is like, I dont really like this. And also, sometimes if you tell your boyf that you're a non-virgin, they'll throw you a side.
11 Jun 10, 09:01 AM
W.: But, people always judge non-virgin to be cheap. Which is like, I dont really like this. And also, sometimes if you tell your boyf that you're a non-virgin, they'll throw you a side.me times
- If they throw you aside, they don't really mean on being in a relationship with you. Well, those who aways claim that those who had already lost their virginity, a cheap girl. They have very different thinking from us, and they can get really mean. So chill girl, you're not cheap if you don't go around having sex with different guys, numerous time.
10 Jun 10, 06:53 PM
W.: Is a non-virgin useless? Why people t hink that non-virgin is always those type of girls who's cheap?is those t
- Haven't finish your sentence? Well, nope. If you're not a virgin, you're of course not useless. Well, there's a different definition of, non-virgin being cheap, and non-virgin. Non-virgin, you made love with some one you love. Non-virgin being cheap, you go around and just flirt with any guy, you don't make love, you have sex. Having sex with numerous guys, more than once/ or once, with many different guy, even he's not your boyfriend/husband.

11 Jun 10, 06:05 AM
Tristan: i wan to quit smoking ,but always cannot tahan.have any tips for me ?
- Hello Tristan :) Well, you can try nicotine gum. I know it taste awfully disgusting. Hahaha. You can go to the rehabilitation centre? Its good that you want to quit smoking. Or if you want to quit without going to the rehabilitation centre, or nicotine gum. Try avoid areas where people are smoking, if possible stay at home, and get your mind occupied, reading comics, stuffs like that. (:

11 Jun 10, 04:31 AM
K: me. Plus he said it's boring talking to me, unlike others, wht shld i do ?
11 Jun 10, 04:27 AM
K: Me & my boyf lasted for nearly half a mth, but he don't really tell me that he love me or miss me etc. Sometimes, he don't call me 'dear' etc ... Sometimes, I will wonder, does he really love m
- Hey K. I think his feelings for you, might have faded? He's real mean to be telling you those. Have a nice talk to him, if he still loves you or not. If he doesn't, i think both of you should split :/

11 Jun 10, 02:00 AM
Gah: He keeps telling me how emo hes feeling .. And keeps telling me that he cut his wrists .. ): Btw, nice blog you got! Kind soul .. May god bless you~
- Tell him not to be silly, and act like a man! Slitting wrist won't help, & it'll leave ugly scars ): Thanks though, may god bless you too.
11 Jun 10, 01:59 AM
Gah: meant for each other, I know I still like him ): What should i do?
11 Jun 10, 01:58 AM
Gah: Helloh. I've got a very complicated r/s here. Me and this guy .. Have already broke up and patched several times.. And now, he's asking me for a patch again. Although I think that we really aren't mea
- If you still like him, tell him sternly that you allow this one last time for a reconciliation. You don't want to step in a relationship when there's always this break and patch, patch and break. Tell him you ain't joking, and you're serious. I hope your relationship gets better :)

11 Jun 10, 02:00 AM
Ab: can do to help myself?
11 Jun 10, 02:00 AM
Ab: Um hello there Dee. I've a 'shy-problem'. I hope you can help me. Basically i'm very very shy. I don't even dare to go in to shops to buy clothes, I don't dare to order food too. Is there anything i
- Hi ab! Yes, you can do lots of thing to help yourself. First you must build up your courage bit by bit. Taking things step by step. Try ordering food with your friends first. There's nothing to be shy about. Get your friend to stand next to you, reminding you what to say, in case you get nervous and forgotten everything you wanted to say. Slowly bit by bit, update me to see if you've gain any courage! Try! All the best!

11 Jun 10, 01:57 AM
AnonymousXxX: eheh. idk how i feel. but i liked this girl. but i dno how to confess to her. and it seems to be my friend's ex. which makes me even in a more difficult situation. ):
- Well, it seems, so you're not confirm. Well, you can just be frank to her. Tell her when you started developing interest in her.. You've to give it a try, be a man! ;) Good luck!

11 Jun 10, 01:30 AM
kenneth: i m working everyday and i had probation too..
- Well, that can't be help. You just have to spend more time with her when you can. Or find another job, with a better timing? I hope things turns out better. (:
11 Jun 10, 01:16 AM
kenneth: i felt that i have neglact my gf =(
- Apologise for neglecting your girlfriend, and then organise your time so you can do things you like, and not neglect your girlfriend :)

11 Jun 10, 01:21 AM
C ♥: I'm glad i found ure blog ;)
- There's so many C here. Hahaha, so confusing. I guess i'm honoured to have you saying that. Hahaha!

11 Jun 10, 12:37 AM
G: Thanks. But today's much better for me. He said I looked prettier today LOL. And he asked me out on saturday too! He also said that he wanted to hug me before I left. Dyou think I stand a chance?
- That's great! I'm happy for you! & Well, you may stand a chance girl. But don't let him hug you before you step into a relationship with him, if not he might think that you're 'simple' and 'easy'.

11 Jun 10, 12:21 AM
\d: is there any item which is good for slimming down
- Well, pills and creams don't work. Trust me. Go for the most natural, just fruits and veggies everyday. Those don't work, and there might be side effects and pills may cause death. So, highly not recommended.
11 Jun 10, 12:08 AM
\d: any tips how to slim down?
- Well it all starts with eating right. Reduce the coke, pepsi, all the frizzy drinks to chinese tea, water, milk. Cut down on oily foods, junk foods like chicken wings, kentucky chicken, potato chips, chocolates. If you don't like running, go for long walks, it can be in the mall, at the park, any where. You can pick up any sports you like, badminton, tennis, stuffs like that. You also have to sleep at the right time, and do not, do not eat any thing 4 hours before bed time. It affects the digestions.

11 Jun 10, 12:06 AM
-: thanks.. :)
- You're welcome :)

10 Jun 10, 11:48 PM
Mimi: 16... Is it too young to start makeup or? :l
- Nope, it isn't too young. Just not so much makeup. Slight make up will do. You don't want to go out wearing a mask right. Keep it more to the side of natural. & it'll be just fine. ;)

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