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Created on 7th June 12:02am.
Please note that i'm not a counselor in reality.
But i do give advices to friends, people whom i do not know. It can be relationships, family, friendship.
If you have really serious problems, like health. Its best you consult a real doctor. I don't want people to die.
I'll try to give the absolute best solution i can think of to help you guys out. *It might not work, but you can give it a try.
I don't give out my personal information to anyone. I hope i can help everyone with their problems.
If you're going to share your story with me, obviously the cbox is too small.

So you could email me here.

Please indicate your age too, if you would want your story to be posted, or keep it private.
If posted, i'll reply on the post itself. If not, i'll reply you privately.

Love life. Have a nice day.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

9 Jun 10, 05:49 PM
Celia's: Msn can anot ? :/
- Sorry hun, if not there'll be whole lot of people adding me in msn. Or you can comment / tag at either the cbox widget or guestbook being an anonymous.

9 Jun 10, 05:41 PM
Vessie: the*
9 Jun 10, 05:41 PM
Vessie: I see. I just find he way he treating me is getting different by days passes.
- Have a nice talk with him then, clear all the misunderstandings between each other.

9 Jun 10, 05:35 PM
M.: I fell in love with my tuition teacher when his like 20+ when I'm like 14? :/
- You're quite young for a relationship, but what the heck, no one cares anymore. But i don't think it's love, i guess it's mere crush. & please do not let him do what he wants just because you like him. I suggest you should change another tuition teacher, before your feelings for him gets stronger, it's for your own good girl.

9 Jun 10, 04:23 PM
V's 1st nov,: I dont know if i still have feelings for him. );
9 Jun 10, 04:23 PM
V's 1st nov,: I was with this guy for 1 month and 5 days, we had a quarrel and he said its better that we just went our seperate ways. we've broken up for many months now. I still miss him. what should I do? help!
- I think you should forget about him, it's just a mere 1 month 5 days. Do things you enjoy to divert your attention. Cheer up sweetie, all the best.

9 Jun 10, 03:24 PM
jolyncyx .: send u email le ;)
- Okay honey, gonna read it now.

9 Jun 10, 03:23 PM
Vessie: What do you think ? my blog post. About my boyf ? LOL.
- It isn't surprising that you're feeling this way. Most of the guy's piority has became online gaming. Well, don't think too much when he isn't replying your text. Ask yourself if he treats you good, or not. Does he give you enough love you're suppose to recieve? This happens to me before, he neglected me with his online gaming, his outing with his dudes and brothers. Thus leaving me kinda like lurking at the corner drawing millions of tiny circles. I couldn't take it no more, i left him, although it hurts alot. But i should do what i've gotta do. So, i'm not advicing you to leave him, because i don't know much about your situation. But just by looking at your post, it's only your side of the 'story'. He might be really really busy ya' know. So why not you just have a talk with him, if he tells you you're irritating, flares alittle temper, alittle will do. It shows that you're no longer as important as you were before. By then, you should know what to do right? What is there for having a relationship that leaves you with all the question marks all the time.

9 Jun 10, 03:16 PM
L: how can you tell if a guy likes you? because I have many guy friends hence I cant tell the diff...
- Hey there (: Well, i guess he'll get jealous if you get too close to your guy friends, gives you a little attitude when you say you're with them, or going out to meet them, talks to you more than your usual guy friends. Tease you, make a joke about himself just to make you smile whenever you're down, stuffs like this. There's more though, lots more. But don't jump to conclusion, he might just take you as his sister, bestfriend, another company. (:

9 Jun 10, 02:47 PM
X: But the friend who scolded my via msn is showing me attitude whenever I am trying to be nice and get close to her. She even called me ***** behind my back.
9 Jun 10, 02:46 PM
X: one of them, kinda scolded me via msn. I promised her that I will follow them more often, my relationship with many of them are much better,
9 Jun 10, 02:44 PM
X: I had been hanging out with my guy too often that I neglected my friends,
- Okay, there's obviously 2 possibilities, #1 She hates you, #2 She cares too much that she's jealous. Is either she develop hatred for you for quite a long time ago, and you gave her a chance to bad mouth you, or she is jealous about you spending more times with your guy. If you think, her kind of personality definately isn't the type that would be jealous. I advice you to stop calling her friend. (:

9 Jun 10, 02:32 PM
psb: how to confess for a guy? i know it's kinda weird to do so for a girl.
- Hey there! Hold it, hold it. It ain't weird! Its actually kinda cool ya' know. Not all girls could pick up their courage to confess, they usually wait till the guy confesses. You can drop some hints if you're shy, otherwise you can tell him like this " Um, i know it's kinda dumb, but.. I think i like you. " Smiles and look at him, at this time, you are sure to be anticipating his reply. But girl, don't keep your hopes too high, you don't want them crashing down harshly. If he doesn't feel the same way towards you, it's okay, it's perfectly fine hun'. You can still be friends, who knows he might fall in love with you in the future. Good luck babe.

9 Jun 10, 02:08 PM
Aizat's lyn .: What should i do ?
9 Jun 10, 02:07 PM
Aizat's lyn .: I still can't get over my ex . he said he love me . But a few minutes later he told me me he wanted to break .
- Hey lyn, it shows that he doesn't love you. I think you should drop the thinking about being with him anymore, carry on with your life, and find someone else who loves you more than you love yourself, good luck babe. (:

9 Jun 10, 01:04 PM
{♥}: 3 months already i cannot forget my ex no matter how hard i try , how ? :l
- I guess you're a girl? Throw away everything he gave you, his photos, his text on your cellphone. Don't do things/ go to places that reminds you of him. I know it's heart wrenching when you have to throw away those things, you can still keep them as a souvenir, but it's only this period of time, after you forgotten about him, you'll be like " hmm you can throw it away, it's not of any use now". Do you understand what i'm sayin' hun? Spend more time with friends, having outdoor activities, going out on shopping, or sleep overs. Try your best, you can do it :)

9 Jun 10, 12:00 PM
H.: I'm 15. When i was younger, i did not take care of my skin & therefore, I now have acne scars on my face even though my acne have already cleared up. How do I get rid of the scars?
- Hey there, my friend recommended 'Acneace'. I guess it's some kinda cream or something. But my advice is, get a doctor. Ask if there's any kind of treatment available and if you have sensitive skin or something, ask if there are side effects or stuff like that. Because i don't want to spoil your beautiful skin with some of my recommendation. Hope you'll get clear and smooth complexion soon!

9 Jun 10, 11:54 AM
J: We're only tgt for 1 month plus and he told me his feelings for me faded, and now he's being sweet t me again. Is it worth to wait for him ?
9 Jun 10, 11:53 AM
J: Alright, he might be sweet to me sometimes, and sometimes he just treat me coldly.
- Honey, i believe he's just toying with you. '' We're only tgt for 1 month plus and he told me his feelings for me faded, and now he's being sweet t me again" tells everything. Just this sentence can see that he's not the right guy for you. My opinion is, don't wait for him. If you do wait, waiting for? Letting him once again tell you his feelings faded? But if you think my opinion is wrong (because i don't know how sweet he can be, or how cold can he be), and he might be the one for you, you can go ahead with your thinking. But not every relationship can be based on the 'follow your heart' thing ya' know.

9 Jun 10, 11:45 AM
Grace.W: But during a period of time, I still miss him. What should I do?
9 Jun 10, 11:44 AM
Grace.W: Thanks for recommending your site to me. Hopefully it would be useful. I just needs way how to lead
a better life. I've let go over a guy that isn't worth it.
- Hey Grace. I guess, it would be your ex? Or someone you're waiting? Isn't worth? Worth your tears? Or worth your love? Sorry babe, with the lil info, can't help but guessing. Well, you could still be friends with him right? If you don't want him to be in your life no more. Try going out with your cliques, going out and havin' some fun. When you're enjoying yourself, you'll slowly find that there's no need to cling on to those sad memories, and your brain just kinda like 'auto delete' the pains the memories are givin' you, so even though next time you think of him again, it'll just be " oh... him. " All the best :)

9 Jun 10, 11:37 AM
sighsighsigh: I have a caring boyfriend but I find myself looking at some better looking guys sometimes. What should I do? :( Feel so confused.
- Hey. Looking at better looking guys only? Or plus having some 'crush' ? If it's only looking at better looking guys. Well, its quite normal. Provided you still love your other half. Cheers.

9 Jun 10, 11:17 AM
C's.: I think I don't love my boyf enough, ): well, he's loving & thoughtful. any girl would want her boyf t possess those qualities, but I just think that I don't love him enough. How ? :(
- "I don't love him enough". But you still do love him, right? Spend more quality time with each other, to see if there's any changes. If it remains the same, or you don't love him so much anymore; Sweetie, try telling him. You can start with, " Baby(Whatever you call him), I've something to tell you. You see, i know you're loving, thoughtful. But i don't know why, i think my love for you has decreased.. ( Then tell him the reason )". If not, you can still try to spend more quality time, all the best!

9 Jun 10, 07:51 AM
Celia's: I want to tell you about my feeling , but i don't want others to know . :(
- Honey, you can email me at askdee@live.com.sg . Cheer up alright :)

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