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Please note that i'm not a counselor in reality.
But i do give advices to friends, people whom i do not know. It can be relationships, family, friendship.
If you have really serious problems, like health. Its best you consult a real doctor. I don't want people to die.
I'll try to give the absolute best solution i can think of to help you guys out. *It might not work, but you can give it a try.
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If you're going to share your story with me, obviously the cbox is too small.

So you could email me here.

Please indicate your age too, if you would want your story to be posted, or keep it private.
If posted, i'll reply on the post itself. If not, i'll reply you privately.

Love life. Have a nice day.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

5 Sep 10, 10:41 PM
Teeeheee~: again i kept rejecting, i know i love him, but i just cant accept that fact ): should i let go?
5 Sep 10, 10:40 PM
Teeeheee~: more often, etc. i wonder is it better this way? ): he has been asking for patch i time and time
5 Sep 10, 10:40 PM
Teeeheee~: like a lot of stuffs? yea it mayb that im jealous. but ever since we broke up we've been messaging
5 Sep 10, 10:39 PM
Teeeheee~: friends says that he's just shy. but i hate it when other girls talked to him and he can talk back
5 Sep 10, 10:39 PM
Teeeheee~: we broke up cuz i think that whenever i talked to him in rl its like im talking to the wall? -.- his
5 Sep 10, 10:38 PM
Teeeheee~: Hey dee, i have a problem ): there's this guy here which both of us.. Likes each other but. Recently
- Hi there :) Well. I guess you should know that some guys are not suitable to be your other half. More like a best friend, something like that. Maybe you do like him, but i'm sure there's a reason why you kept rejecting him. Maybe you are not even aware of the actual reason to why you're doing so. Maybe deep inside you know that he's better as a friend(?). Well, some guy tends to be shy around girls they like. Think carefully, maybe he's the one for you? Or maybe he's destined to be just your good friend. But don't let the chances slip. If you patch with him, one day you might get into another break up, by then you might not be friends after that? Or if you don't want to patch with him, you stay as friends but you'll see him entering another girl's heart. It's your choice actually :)

4 Sep 10, 07:43 PM
Passerbyyy :D: Full of advertisement . Aiyoyoyo !
4 Sep 10, 07:42 PM
Passerbyyy :D: LOL.
4 Sep 10, 07:42 PM
Passerbyyy :D: Hahaha ! Is this blog dead alreadyyy ? Deee , you didnt mange it ?
- Haha! I've been juggling time with work, friends and family. Sorry for all the late replies. & the advertisements are seriously annoying. & it's pissing me off. :@

30 Aug 10, 07:24 PM
^.^: But actually know what. I said hey to him but I got ignored -_- Guess I should forget it then?
- Well you can keep trying? :) There's no harm.

30 Aug 10, 04:42 PM
chuu: i really wish he wont be gaming so often, but i scared i be "annoying" to him. wht shuld i do? ><
30 Aug 10, 04:40 PM
chuu: Sometimes, when i nudge him / ask him to stop plying and be with me, he will get kinda emo..
30 Aug 10, 04:39 PM
chuu: But i just dont understand... Guys do really like to play a lot of online games.
30 Aug 10, 04:39 PM
chuu: btw i m in a relationship right now. I hav a bf whom is really caring.
30 Aug 10, 04:38 PM
chuu: thnx deez for spending time ans my ques >
- Hi there. Well, i guess most guys do enjoy online gaming. Maybe you can join the game that he's playing and just have fun together. It's better than getting either you or him upset or moody. Don't you think so? (:

30 Aug 10, 01:22 PM
loves16th,: THANKS DEEZ ! ;D
- Aww. Welcome :D

Sunday, August 29, 2010

29 Aug 10, 01:19 AM
^.^: Haha. Do you check this tagboard more often than checking your mail? :O
- Haha, i used to check all at once, all the time. Ever since work has been chasing my butt. I can't handle all at once. So yes i do check the tag board more often now. :)

28 Aug 10, 03:22 PM
AdelineLim: so can you please. help me??
28 Aug 10, 03:22 PM
AdelineLim: to say. then she will think. and sometimes we patch up(:
28 Aug 10, 03:21 PM
AdelineLim: cause talking to her nicely doesnt work. you have to be mean and all, and just make her have nothing
28 Aug 10, 03:21 PM
AdelineLim: i have feelings too,she needs to care about things if she wants friends. and i want to hurt her.
28 Aug 10, 03:20 PM
AdelineLim: a loser.and can u like,give me some advice on how i can ask her to stop being so selfobsessed.
28 Aug 10, 03:20 PM
AdelineLim: she's throwing her future away by failing exams and breaking school rules. i dont want her to end up
28 Aug 10, 03:19 PM
AdelineLim: and i dont want to lose her.
28 Aug 10, 03:19 PM
AdelineLim: best fren she is,bud she really means alot to me.
28 Aug 10, 03:19 PM
AdelineLim: just talk nicely and apologize?is apologizing that difficult? yeah,u might be thinking what kind of
28 Aug 10, 03:18 PM
AdelineLim: she doesnt really care about my feelings,or when its her fault she just asks me to stfu?why cant she
28 Aug 10, 03:17 PM
AdelineLim: she's just very self obsessed.
28 Aug 10, 03:17 PM
AdelineLim: hey deez. i have a bestfriend. she's great(: but she just doesnt care about everything.
- Hey Adeline (: Well, you're right. If she doesn't go with the nice way, probably the harsh way then. You can tell her sternly, what she needs to do and what she shouldn't be doing. She needs to know that you really do care for her and you just want her well. Talk heart to heart with her, know what she's missing out in life and maybe console her. There might be things that made her this way. Just try to let her know how much she mean to you and that you just care for her well-being. It's nice to know that someone actually cares for another, and doesn't want to give up. Good luck!

Friday, August 27, 2010

26 Aug 10, 10:33 PM
^.^: you really mia fr so long :(
24 Aug 10, 07:12 PM
^.^: Deez :( ... where are you? :(
- Hey there! So so sorry. I'm really stressed out at work. I'm so sorry. ):

26 Aug 10, 03:01 PM
MissinDeez: Hey Deez ): Where have you gone t, for so long? We all miss you..
- Aww! I'm sorry. I missed you guys too. I hardly had anytime off for myself too ): So sorry guys.

24 Aug 10, 12:18 PM
` MissLost: Sorry for the spam. Please help me. I really need your advice.
24 Aug 10, 12:17 PM
` MissLost: i somehow enjoyed the process >.< but after that i feel dirty .. what shd i do ? ):
24 Aug 10, 12:17 PM
` MissLost: i tried to stop him, but he wouldnt.. Whenever i look for him, he will always try to do the same agn
24 Aug 10, 12:16 PM
` MissLost: and i jumped awake when i felt his hands running into my bra.. ltr on he tried fingering me ..
24 Aug 10, 12:15 PM
` MissLost: Dee.. i have a boyfriend who i love very dearly. There was once i fell asleep in his house.
- Hi there. How old are you? I think your boyfriend should respect your body and you should too. Nothing means more than a girl's chasity. Please cherish yourself, love your body. Don't let the devil overcome you. (:

23 Aug 10, 10:13 PM
Annabel: Thanks deez! Great advice from you. I'm v. happy with him now. :D
- Welcome hun!

21 Aug 10, 03:18 PM
love16th.: most of the time he will , sometimes he wont . does he still love me ? ):
21 Aug 10, 03:17 PM
love16th.: and when i ask to message me after like his tuition , or buying things he wont message me
21 Aug 10, 03:17 PM
love16th.: Sometimes when i message him , he wont reply , but sometimes he will .
21 Aug 10, 03:17 PM
love16th.: Hi deez , i have a boyfriend , he's younger than me By 1 years old .
- Hi ^^ How old are you my dear? I think you shouldn't jump to conclusions. Ask him to reply you more often so you wouldn't get so sensitive. (:

20 Aug 10, 07:25 PM
17f: sent you an email privately to you. hope to hear from youso soon ya.
- Oh i'm so sorry to be seeing this 1 week later. I'll reply it now :)

19 Aug 10, 01:40 PM
Chuu: But things dint work out liddat. );
19 Aug 10, 01:39 PM
Chuu: I thought smart peoples n normal students cn mix ard, since every1 are frens and classmates..
19 Aug 10, 01:38 PM
Chuu: But i stil dont get it y smart ppl ony hang out w smart ppl, while we normal students jz w normal.
19 Aug 10, 01:37 PM
Chuu: Hi dee! Thnx for ur advise, its awesome! =)
- Welcome! Well. Actually it's not about the stream you're in. It's about the personalities. I'm sure that there are still some Express students who are friends with the Normal Academics or the Technical students. (:

18 Aug 10, 08:22 PM
^.^: I hope you check your email soon :(
- I'm checking them now! :) Sorry for the super late reply ):

18 Aug 10, 08:02 PM
Sensitivegirl: HI! Will girls feel horny too? Is it normal?
- Hi there! Yes they do. & it's normal. (:

14 Aug 10, 12:39 AM
psb: like your songs. ;D
- Aww thanks! :)

9 Aug 10, 11:11 PM
Zxcvbnm.: one tht I like. :) Thanks so much for lending a "listening ear", :)
9 Aug 10, 11:10 PM
Zxcvbnm.: Hey Deez, I'm not sure whether you still remembered me ? Well, now I'm finally with the
- Hi! I don't really remember. *So sorry* You're welcome and congrats!

9 Aug 10, 03:07 AM
Girlgirl: But i love him very much right now. what should i do?
9 Aug 10, 03:06 AM
Girlgirl: 1week i miss him like hell and i afraid that when he out our feeling have gonna.
9 Aug 10, 03:05 AM
Girlgirl: My boyfriend go boihome but i tell him i will wait for him come out but he just go in less than
- Hi there. Well, i think you shouldn't promise anyone things that you are not certain of. You might be in love with him now. Will you still be in 1 year time? Or, will he? Cheer up though :)

VDW: advice ! :/
6 Aug 10, 10:46 PM
VDW: Oh malaysia. You think it's possible ? I mean , I've never handled long distance r/s so I need some
- Well, i don't think it would go out pretty well. Because wouldn't have any clue if your other half is cheating or you or not. Right? I think that you would want your other half to belong to you, just you. :)

5 Aug 10, 07:49 PM
Amanda: waiting*
5 Aug 10, 07:49 PM
Amanda: You didn't reply my email? I have been wating..
- I'm truly sorry. I'm replying them now.

5 Aug 10, 06:14 PM
Celia: I still missing him, what should i do? He have a gf alr. ): I should give up right? Sigh.
- Well, you can still confess to him. But be prepared for the answers you get in return. But i would really advice you to just move on :)

4 Aug 10, 10:15 PM
Scared: tell me the conditions of someone who will get pregnant? Like , is it possible for me to get preg?
4 Aug 10, 10:14 PM
Scared: Hi. Im 14 and i had s3x with my boyfriend. Im really scared if i get pregnant or something. Can you
- Firstly, you shouldn't be engaged in any sexual activities at the age of 14. But you've done it anyway. You might feel nauseous, you might feel a bigger appetite than you usually do. Might. Not all people feels the same way. I suggest you to see a doctor, or try the pregnancy test kit. Do not ever do it again.

3 Aug 10, 06:25 PM
Jolie-: bud i cant.cos there were many happy memories.please,give me some advice?
3 Aug 10, 06:24 PM
Jolie-: bud yet, i want to forget her and get on with life.
3 Aug 10, 06:24 PM
Jolie-: i have other frens,just that she's important too.and i dont want to lose her.
3 Aug 10, 06:23 PM
Jolie-: then looking at me and rolling their eyes.
3 Aug 10, 06:23 PM
Jolie-: whenever i walk past them its like she's trying to make me jealous or sth,like laughing very loudly
3 Aug 10, 06:23 PM
Jolie-: hey deez(: recently i had a fight with my bestfren and now,she's with another girl.
- I think you should apologise to her. Even though it might not be your fault. You don't want to lose her right? Or if you don't want to apologise to her. Have a talk with her. Sort out the misunderstandings and get things straight. If nothing works, even you have tried every ways that you've thought off. Get over it slowly. Everything takes time. You can do it :) All the best!

3 Aug 10, 05:13 PM
SKYL: Thanks ;D
3 Aug 10, 05:13 PM
SKYL: not as a stead . It all a lie right ? But now i do not have th guts to break hym . ); HELPMEE );
3 Aug 10, 05:12 PM
SKYL: me & my boyf quarrel over somethings . I have in mind was break .He just treated me as a friend
3 Aug 10, 05:11 PM
SKYL: Hey , Thanks for your advice . It really make me understand much clearer . But lately ,\
- Welcome :) Well, i think you should tell him the truth. It's better for both of you :)

3 Aug 10, 10:00 AM
Cee: but he didn't reply. How?
3 Aug 10, 10:00 AM
Cee: But I do. I thought that way cuz I'm afraid he'll leave me. He's ignoring me now. I spammed him text
3 Aug 10, 09:59 AM
Cee: trust him.
3 Aug 10, 09:59 AM
Cee: My boyfriend is angry/unhappy about me for thinking that he still loves his ex. He said I don't
- I think you should let him cool down for awhile, and then meet up and clear all misunderstandings between both of you. Tell him how you really feel and you're just afraid to lose him, thats why you're being all paranoid. (:

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

2 Aug 10, 06:39 PM
Annoymous: or wut?
2 Aug 10, 06:39 PM
Annoymous: soooooo long, and im still in <3> w him. but he calls me as hes gan " jie". shld i continue lovin him
2 Aug 10, 06:38 PM
Annoymous: And yeah, i've got a problem here. erm. i like tis guy whose younger than me by 1 year. its been soo
2 Aug 10, 06:37 PM
Annoymous: Hey Deez. Its a long time since you actually posted o-o.
- Hi there :) Yea, i've been working my butts off. Sorry for all the late replies. Well, you can try confessing your love to him. I think that it's alright to have a 'incest' relationship. If he rejects your confession, it's alright to just stay as 'brothers' and 'sisters'.

1 Aug 10, 10:59 PM
VDW: Thanks (:
1 Aug 10, 10:59 PM
VDW: Hey , I was wondering whether long distant relationships could actually work out ? Some advice pls ?
- Hi VDW. As in like far places in a specific country or like i'm in Singapore, he/she's in Mexico or something?

1 Aug 10, 08:14 PM
Cee: You're Deborah right?
- Hi Cee. Sorry but i'm not Deborah. My name has a Dee in it, but i prefered Deezley to be my name. :) Deborah is a nice name too.

1 Aug 10, 12:20 PM
Jessy: How do you know whether a guy like you?
- Well, it's hard to differenciate, because some guys actually just really care for you. But you might misunderstood it by his actions and think that he's actually liking you because it shows by his actions.

31 Jul 10, 04:27 AM
X: my boyf knows about it ? *stressed out
31 Jul 10, 04:27 AM
X: My monthly thing is late, I'm afraid. If it is how do i tell my parents ? How am i supposed to let
- Well, you should see a doctor to make sure that things are okay(?).

30 Jul 10, 05:06 PM
;Carine: what should i do ?
30 Jul 10, 05:06 PM
;Carine: a small kid, running here and there. but i love him. yet i find it a disgrace to go out with him.
30 Jul 10, 05:05 PM
;Carine: Me and my friends fell out for a project. now nobody is my friend in school. my boyfriend acts like
- Well, you shouldn't be ashamed that he's like a kid or what you preferred it to be called. Because you love him, you should see his imperfections to be perfect. An other options is to tell him to stop behaving it, because you don't like it or something :) & as for the friendship kind of things, you can make friends with more people by being social, friendly, etc. It's normal to fall out with friends, but just be careful with what you say that might hurt their feelings or get them upset in the future, even if this incident wasn't your fault.

29 Jul 10, 08:57 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: Hey Dee thanks alot ! Things had been sort out now , i will need youuu agains soon kay ! ;shy ILY<3>
- Haha, sure. Of course i hope not :) Welcome!

27 Jul 10, 02:19 PM
Wl.: How should I stop this?
27 Jul 10, 02:19 PM
Wl.: I miss those times, and tends to get jealous when I see people or pics doing that.
27 Jul 10, 02:18 PM
Wl.: Hey, after breaking up with my ex 1 year plus ago, and he has taken away my first kiss/french kiss.
- Well, distract yourself by doing other things. It's because you have not let go of him, not yet. It's normal, don't think so much and those jealousy about other couples will all be over soon :)

26 Jul 10, 08:58 PM
SKYL: sorry fer spamming :X
26 Jul 10, 08:58 PM
SKYL: what should i do .
26 Jul 10, 08:58 PM
SKYL: my boyf knew i like someone else , but he chose to wait & even give me his blessings . >.<
26 Jul 10, 08:57 PM
SKYL: but i not sure who i like :X
26 Jul 10, 08:57 PM
SKYL: now im already with someone else , he treat me damn good .
26 Jul 10, 08:57 PM
SKYL: he told me tht he was going to tell me but i dont believe .
26 Jul 10, 08:56 PM
SKYL: i was so angry tht he gave me false hope & i scolded hym .
26 Jul 10, 08:56 PM
SKYL: with someone , i totally broke down in th public , didnt know what to do
26 Jul 10, 08:56 PM
SKYL: then i sae okay , but when it was th last day of exam , my friend told me bout he was already
26 Jul 10, 08:55 PM
SKYL: around may , he ask me to wait as it was exam time . and said after exam he will give me th answer
26 Jul 10, 08:54 PM
SKYL: i did not have th courage so i didnt
26 Jul 10, 08:54 PM
SKYL: but there one thing , instead of guy ask girl fer stead , he want me to ask hym fer stead
26 Jul 10, 08:54 PM
SKYL: hmm , there this guy in my school , i kinda like hym . i confessed & he like me back too (:
26 Jul 10, 08:53 PM
SKYL: well i shall begin
26 Jul 10, 08:53 PM
SKYL: i was wondering whether you can help me anot too .
26 Jul 10, 08:53 PM
SKYL: Hey , was blog hopping when i came across your this blog .
- Hi there SKYL :) I think you should just stick with your boyfriend. I think it's nice of him to be giving you his blessing. Who could tolerate their girlfriend to be in love with another guy and give his blessings? I think you should just let go of that guy, i don't think that he's true to you. But it's just my opinion :)

26 Jul 10, 05:38 PM
C-L: Ty in adv , and sorry ferr spam ;x
26 Jul 10, 05:38 PM
C-L: and lunches in sku is so lonely type . - no sort-of bff i have , pathetic -
26 Jul 10, 05:37 PM
C-L: by showing her i don't lyke her attitude and all . But ... Thn again , without her , my recesses
26 Jul 10, 05:36 PM
C-L: i wanna avoid her at times . But ... She keep cling on to mii . And i don't feel lyke hurting her
26 Jul 10, 05:35 PM
C-L: she admires . ( Th boy is considered quite close to mii ) .
26 Jul 10, 05:34 PM
C-L: doing tht ... And i always get this feeling : she's only by my side to extract some info on th guy
26 Jul 10, 05:34 PM
C-L: doing tht ... And i always get this feeling : she's only by my side to extract some info on th guy
26 Jul 10, 05:33 PM
C-L: boys . She'll jus abandon mii and ... Erhmm , flirt -_- . Gets on my nerves at times when she keeps
26 Jul 10, 05:32 PM
C-L: I still feel lonely . And there's this friend of mine who stand by mii at times . But when she shee
26 Jul 10, 05:31 PM
C-L: Umm , i've been feeling real damn lonely . As in even if i have some friends beside mii ,
26 Jul 10, 05:30 PM
C-L: Heh , i'm back . ;x So umm ... This ish another prob about nao regarding mii . How to put it ...
- Hi :) Well, you can talk to her. Tell her that you hope that she will stop acting that way. Or just make more friends, it's easy to make more new friends. Just be social :)

Monday, July 26, 2010

25 Jul 10, 11:13 AM
--: i want to find a job...........but i am a 14... whad job can i dho
- Hey there. I think you should focus on studies now? Because you're only 14. You can find a job when you're older. That's why there's age restrictions. The government thinks that people below 16/18 should really just focus on their studies first. But you can still work part time. There's like food and beverages, retails and stuff. You can choose fast food, or being a waitress at some kind of restaurants, like Sakae etc. Or NTUC promoters. But still, i believe study is much important for your kind of age now (:

24 Jul 10, 02:25 PM
Haiish: sorry for spamming your textbox. :(
24 Jul 10, 02:25 PM
Haiish: courage 2.
24 Jul 10, 02:25 PM
Haiish: text him (Alil thou) and sometimes i really feel like doing the same too. i wna msg him bt i hv no
24 Jul 10, 02:24 PM
Haiish: my fren sit near him and they seem quite close. I get a lil' jealous. I dun know why. my fren does
24 Jul 10, 02:23 PM
Haiish: my frens thinks he likes me. but i really dk :'( pls help.
24 Jul 10, 02:23 PM
Haiish: ignore me. idk why. I feel so helpless :(
24 Jul 10, 02:22 PM
Haiish: does i ignores it (At times only thou) but sometime, when i try to play and talk to him, he seem to
24 Jul 10, 02:22 PM
Haiish: and when i wanna talk to him or when i talk to him, he ignores me. He loves 2 disturb me but when he
24 Jul 10, 02:21 PM
Haiish: times, that dont seem to be the case. also, when he wanna tok 2 me, idk why but i wont reply him.
24 Jul 10, 02:21 PM
Haiish: too deeeply in love with him. I can't help it. At times, his actions show that he likes me but at
24 Jul 10, 02:20 PM
Haiish: talk to me. Idk why. I really like him a lot. at night, i even dream of him. I seem to have fallen
24 Jul 10, 02:20 PM
Haiish: hey, sometimes i feel that this guy likes me but at times, i feel he dont. He is scared to talk to
- Hey there :) Well, i think this kind personalities don't suit each other as a couple. It's really better to stay as friends, because both of you don't really match well. So i think it's best to stay as friends, you can still confess, therefore you'll feel better. You can also be in a relationship with him if you want. But i doubt it'll work out well. Sorry, but that's just my opinion (: Don't take it too seriously still. My thinking and views might be wrong.

24 Jul 10, 01:27 AM
O___O: reasons, and i dont know if i should let him go or what.
24 Jul 10, 01:27 AM
O___O: tgt, and when we went for our outings and all, and we didnt really contact now because of some
24 Jul 10, 01:26 AM
O___O: But thruout this period, there were lots of memories, and he take cares of me and all when we were
24 Jul 10, 01:26 AM
O___O: Hmm, i dont know why, i always miss a guy that i've only know for a short period
- Hi. I guess you're the type that falls in love easily? Well, since both of you are just friends. So just stay it that way. Unless you really want to step in a relationship with him. You can try to confess and see how it goes? Otherwise, drop that thinking of 'let him go' etc. Staying as friends isn't a bad idea after all y'know?

23 Jul 10, 10:10 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: she told my other frenss & they believeed her,now i only have afew galfrens & many guy closefrens .
23 Jul 10, 10:09 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: Is this really counted as flirting ?? Haishh -sigh-
23 Jul 10, 10:09 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: him was pissed off wit me,scolded me in her blog saying i am a flirt!? -.- .she written it in malay.
23 Jul 10, 10:08 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: who sits right beside me , he often talk to me , & i always laugh & play w him.tt girl inluv with
23 Jul 10, 10:08 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: oh and , i am closer to my classboys to my classgirls. one girl from my class is inluv with a guy
23 Jul 10, 10:06 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: =(?
23 Jul 10, 10:06 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: to impress me but i just got so irriated by him , -.- . i was cold to him idk whyy .
23 Jul 10, 10:05 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: happy && glad to see him , nowadays i did not talk to him often & talk to other boys,he was trying
23 Jul 10, 10:05 PM
R ♥ . :DDDD!: Deee :((( . I realised tt nowadays when i saw my boyf in class i had no reaction,usually i would be
- Hi R, (: I think your feelings for your boyfriend has somehow faded? Well, i don't consider communicating with your classmate as flirting. I think that she did it out of jealousy? As long as you're not doing anything which is considered as betraying your boyfriend. I guess it's fine. Ignore what she says. Don't scold her back or anything. Just let her be, you can't stop her from having a mind of her own. (:

Thursday, July 22, 2010

21 Jul 10, 11:33 PM
-L: Idk what to do now...
21 Jul 10, 11:33 PM
-L: My friends are encouraging me to be with him, cause he's a great guy and everything. But
21 Jul 10, 11:32 PM
-L: but yet i can't stop thinking bout my ex.
21 Jul 10, 11:32 PM
-L: myself, trying to kinda develop feelings for my friend's boyf's friend, ut
21 Jul 10, 11:31 PM
-L: & my friend's boyf's friend who we met when we went out tgt, I feel so diI feel so disgusted with
21 Jul 10, 11:30 PM
-L: Currently there's a guy who's woo-ing me, for quite long alr, even before I was with my ex.
21 Jul 10, 11:29 PM
-L: All the time, but I know he doesn't care at all.
21 Jul 10, 11:29 PM
-L: & now, i kinda like. Give up waiting for him to ask for a patch, but I still think of him.
21 Jul 10, 11:28 PM
-L: who broke up with who, but we stopped talking alr.
21 Jul 10, 11:27 PM
-L: Broke up on our first month, at first there was some confusion about
21 Jul 10, 11:27 PM
-L: Sorry for typos, i only lasted one month with him.
21 Jul 10, 11:26 PM
-L: Hey, um. I had a boyf but I only lasted with him for like o like one month.rnn
- Hey there :) Well, it all depends on how you feel. If you still love your ex. Tell him, maybe both of you could patch? Otherwise, at least you told him how you feel, in this way you'll feel much better. As for the guy who's wooing you. If you have no feelings for him, don't be with him. Don't step into a relationship with a guy who you think is a great guy, so you give it a try, but you have no feelings. Don't rush love. Cheer up. All the best :)

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

21 Jul 10, 12:18 AM
Cheyenne: close at all....
21 Jul 10, 12:18 AM
Cheyenne: I said I'm sorry, but she didn't reply me. I don't want to lose her as my friend, although we're not
21 Jul 10, 12:17 AM
Cheyenne: So lately, she told me I talked back about her. But I didn't, maybe I had but it's like long ago.
21 Jul 10, 12:16 AM
Cheyenne: we never meet each other before, then we seldom talk to one another.
21 Jul 10, 12:15 AM
Cheyenne: Hey, Friends come and go away easily right? I've this cyber friend, and then we became sisters but
- Hey Cheyenne. I think you can leave a message for her, clearing up the misunderstandings. She can choose whether to reply you or not, if she doesn't want to. It's her choice. You've tried to clear it up. Don't think too much. Maybe after a period of time, you can still talk to her, ask her how is she etc. (:

19 Jul 10, 09:02 PM
h: please help D:
19 Jul 10, 09:02 PM
h: Hi, do you know what is tua? My friend keep say that he is going to tua. I had no idea what is that.
- I'm sorry, but i don't know what's that.

hey dee,

im in a new schl this year (sec1). theres these two friends of mine, lets call them C and H. H has moodswings at times but to some people she's very open and friendly. C's very loud, and a lot of people find her annoying cuz because of her attitude, and she's really petty at times.

at the start of the year, i noticed the 2 of them together during recess, class, etc. however, through the months, H started getting pissed at her v often, and they 'stopped' being friends altogether. i think its cuz of H's family problems, but i dont rly want to ask her about it.

i started becoming closer to them. but in schl, its very hard to stick to only one person, or if both follow me, they'll bicker and it'll make the situation very awkward. :/ im just wondering, if i shld ask them why theyre so pissed at each other?

my best friend is from a 'branded' girls school, and she doesnt like it there because she thinks that those people are rly uppity cuz they're rich. she wants to transfer to a neighbourhood school (such as my schl) and i feel its a complete waste of her potential if she does. you think i shld convince her to stay, or leave her be?

sorry for being so long winded, the first problem really gives me headaches (metaphorically) at times, because its like i have to choose between the two and theyre waiting to see who i'll pick.

-k!


- Hey there. I think you should just let your best friend make her own choice :) & As for your 2 friends, tell them that you treat them both as friends. So there's no need for which you'd pick etc. Maybe let them both have a chat and clear any unnecessary misunderstandings. (: